Near the beginning of November, I
saw several of my facebook friends posting reasons they were thankful, or
posting something they were thankful for every day. The idea stuck with me and I couldn’t shake it. One persistent thought was that when
people are asked what they are thankful for, they usually immediately think of
friends and family. Those are
nothing to be scoffed at, and that I am thankful for my friends and family goes
without saying. I couldn’t help
thinking though, about the simple things in life that I am thankful for, things
that I encounter daily or what make me who I am. A mental list started growing and continued expanding until
I wondered if I could think of 100 things for which I am thankful. It started getting difficult towards
the end of the list because I didn’t want to just start naming off everything
that I own or naming things that make me happy. I thought individually and intentionally about each thing on
my list. Some of them are simple
and others complex ideas; some of them are silly and some of them are serious;
some I think about every day and others I often forget. They are not numbered, but there are
100. I promise.
I am thankful for:
My dog and her abounding energy
That my dog stayed alive to two years in the Paraguayan
campo
My thirst for knowledge
How the first sip of coffee in the morning always is amazing
Hot showers
The privileges that come with my United States Passport
The education I have received
My mother never yelling at me for the perpetual holes in my
jeans
The freedoms that come from being a woman in the 21st
century
Luxurious hours spent reading good books
The quiet and peace of early mornings
When I can see the sky full of stars
The fact that I grew up near the Pacific Ocean
The profundity of silence
My mother never expecting me to be anyone but myself
Growing up an athlete
Doctors who have kept me healthy and many times saved my
life
The clear mind I get from a good walk or run
Sweatpants
Contagious laughter
When I cook a good meal and am able to share it with someone
Dark chocolate
Pictures that become memories of my past
The lingering smell of campfires
The women I have worked with who have taught me how to
listen and be patient
Large cups of tea
The sound of the ocean
My computer
My ability to laugh at myself
(in my Aunt Lissa’s words) Successful bowel movements
Knowing more than one language
The English grammar that was drilled into my head growing up
The beautiful innocence of children
Trees
Terere on hot, humid days
Wine and cheese nights with my family
Warm jackets
Traveling
The magic I still feel on Christmas morning
My mother forcing me to learn to play the piano
Growing up with cousins
The awe I feel when I’m on top of a mountain
Ice
When I can justify buying new socks
Afternoon naps
Wildflowers
Public transportation
Mexican food
Never truly going hungry
Sleep
Music
The fresh smell that is present after the rain
Being able to see growth in myself
Scarves
Pools
Easy access to fruits and vegetables
My Ipod
Having a kitchen furnished with dishes and utensils
My “large” New York apartment
The opportunity to live in New York
My experiences in Paraguay
The diverse landscape of the United States
Sunrises
Holidays which give reason to get together with friends and
family
Living in a relatively stable society
Thunderstorms
Sunshine
The ability to see
Bright colors
Good roads
Libraries
People in my life who make me laugh
Access to clean water
Not needing to make a fire everyday to cook my meals
Insulated walls
Mate in the winter
The invention of sliced bread
Having a warm place to sleep at night
My dog always being happy to see me when I come home
Freckles
The right to vote
People who understand me
Hope
My earring collection
Being allowed to wear pants
Chapstick
The way that the smells of homemade food waft through the
house
Frozen yogurt
Feeling safe when I sleep at night
Washing machines
Dryers
Indoor plumbing
Memories of camping trips
Good dental health
The ability to express myself
While maybe it goes without saying
that I am thankful for my family, that often goes unsaid. My family and the idea of family are
sacred to me and I can’t bring myself to just add people that I love to a
list. Instead of listing my
sisters, my mom, and my cousin who is like a sister to me, as people I am
thankful for, I find it appropriate to list reasons why I am thankful for each
one of them. Because they are what
are most precious to me, I think it right to leave these reasons at the end.
Jody’s joy for the simple and natural life
Chelsea’s drive to continue, even when she doesn’t
understand
Dani’s brilliant, satirical wit
Tessa’s stunning brilliance and beauty
My mother’s compassion and ability to see